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Wednesday, March 29, 2006

Jessica gets an operation date

On a beautiful sunny and warm day in Ottawa, we made our way to meet Dr. Chadwick, a stomach surgeon at the Ottawa Civic hospital. He usually doesn't work Wednesday morning but felt the problem with Jessica was urgent and needed to be looked at. He first explained to us what he had found looking at the catscan and MRI. He drew some us some pictures (see inset) with a description of the operation and announced he had found a time slot for him and Dr. Ling to perform the operation. It is scheduled for a week from tomorrow on April 6th, 2006. This works great because it is just after the end of the fiscal year (Jessica needs to work this week) but also allows us to go to Waterloo for Easter.

The operation is of medium difficulty because the mass is pushing against her uterus (actually dislodged it from its natural position) and also the anus passage and possibly the kidney. This would explain a lot such as pain in the back (kidneys), on the sides (uterus) and problems with bowel movement (anus). The sheer size of it (size of a softball) was cause for concern by the surgeon from the beginning and you could see from his concern, he wanted it out as much as we did.

Risks include a rupture of the bowel lining with feces still in there (causing an infection) but we will follow all the necessary pre-operation guidelines minimizing any risk. Another two risks are rupture of the main artery to the legs (very, very remote risk) or the two tubes leading to the bladder (very remote as well). All this amounts to a medium risk surgery with two experienced surgeons on hand (a stomach specialist doing the operation and a pelvic specialist on hand if the uterus is lodged and needs to be moved). The only cutting done will be close to the bowel so the doctor was confident that it should be a seemless operation. They will make a vertical incision of about two inches just below the belly button in order to reduce any damage to the abdomidal muscles.

This allows us to brief a sign of relief and thank God for answering our prayers for a quick operation. Thanks for everyone who prayed with us. Praying really does work, I've come to learn. Now, let's pray for a seemless operation and quick recovery for Jessica with no long term damage. We'll know better the situation in mid-April.

Thursday, March 23, 2006

Back in Canada...

Arrived safe and sound on Saturday night. When we went to wait for the bus (which doesn't take 2-3 minutes like in London), I discovered that we are still in winter-mode in Canada. The next day, we rented a car and went shopping, visited the bix-box outlets in South Keys, drove around Bank Street and the Glebe and made it back in time for the Sunday night show lineup. Monday was spent completing a series of errands and planning to see everyone I hadn't seen in over six months. It's a crazy thing being back in Ottawa.

Happy to be back but the next nine weeks will be busy with learning Spanish, studying for my finals and trying to spend quality time with Jessica, friends and family...

Today, Jess and I went to see another specialist, this time in the arena of the stomach. He was very nice but the blob (we'll call him Bob the Blob from now on) is about the size of a sofball, quite round and about 8cm in diameter. Bob the Blob is a mass of fat with a bit of blood vessels. He likes to feed off the ovaries and bowel which makes it difficult for the specialist to choose who will take Bob the Blob out of Jessica. Bob likes it in there but Jessica would like to see him move to a new address.

The specialist was surprised with Jessica's symptoms, indicating that these masses usually don't produce any of these symptoms and was not convinced removing Bob would solve the underlying stomach problems. Given we have ruled out acid reflux, allergic reactions, exotic diseases caught in North Africa and Bob the Blob to be the cause of the stomach problems, we are quite perplexed. However, Bob may still be partly responsible for this and the sooner this unwanted guests moves out, the faster we'll know what the next step is in order to bring Jessica back to good health.

She should see the specialist next week and hopefully get an operation time (as the gyneocologist also needs to be there for the operation due to its location near the pelvic area).

Bob the Blob, please go home!

Sunday, March 12, 2006

Family Cometh, Family Leaveth

Well, my family came and my family went. It first started with my sister's surprise visit at the end of February. Unfortunately, she arrived at the busiest time of the year in terms of lectures to attend so I could only do things with her in the evening. This didn't stop her from attending my International Finance course on Tuesday morning. She spent most of the lecture doodling some interesting things. She also met up with some of my colleagues from my program who showed her around town and kept her busy when she was waiting for me at the cafeteria (she makes friends very quickly). While I went to class, Isabelle mostly toured London's art scene. We would have lunch and supper at cool spots and even had a couple pints in my local water drinking hole (Finsbury Park Pub).

On Friday, when the rest of my family arrived, we even had a mini b-day party for my cousin Gabriel, celebrating his 11th b-day (what a great way to have a party... traversing half-way accross the globe). My sister had to leave shortly thereafter to start her own pan-European tour (starting in Vienna). We then started the walking tour (much to the chagrin of my mother's left knee). We saw most of the sights in central London that first day although no museums (this was left for future visits).

On Saturday, I left my family to their own devices while I tied a few loose ends for school. Gabi went to a children's session of Les Misérables Making while my mother and aunt went shopping in Soho and Piccadilly Circus. They then saw the musical Les Misérables and made their way back for supper. The next day (Sunday), we went to visit Camden Town and Portobello Market, two opposing markets in style and substance but both interesting in their own respects. The day was marvellous with lots of sunshine and warmer weather which was a treat, even for me.

On Monday, I left Gabi and Jacqueline went to a British school (she had pre-arranged this to allow Gabi to see a British school and also for her to compare the Canadian system to the one in the United Kingdom) while my mother and I took our time. We then made our way to the British Museum. I had a bit of study time in the Library while my mother saw a few exhibits. Around 3:30 PM, we met up with my cousin, aunt and toured the British Museum together walking past the Near Middle East, Greek and Egyptian artifacts. My cousin thought the mummies were very cool!

On Tuesday to Thursday, my family went to Paris, leaving me to 15 hours of lectures, a project to hand in, three homework assignments due and a number of papers to read. After little sleep, too many group meetings, I was able to complete most of everything by the time they arrived. However, by this time, after sharing my room for over a week and having little sleep, my body was starting to let me down. I had a cold and sore throat and I was exhausted. I had to attend class on Friday from nine to noon so my family decided to visit LSE afterwards. I found them in the Garrick Cafeteria. It was great to have finished my week at school and able to devote myself fully to my family. We toured the LSE campus. I believe my mother really enjoyed this and you could tell she missed her university days. Sometimes you are so immersed into the atmosphere you forget these are the best years of our lives. In the afternoon, we visited the Kensington Palace which was also a treat because it is always interesting to see how the Monarchs live. There was a Diana exhibit which was very well done. We finished the evening by going back home while my aunt and cousin visited the Science Museum nearby.

Saturday was a great way to finish a hectic 10 days. We slept in, looked at some photos from my trip to Morroco and Egypt. In 2010, my aunt and uncle will be taking six months off with the boys and they will hopefully be doing lots of travelling. They are interested in taking the boys back to Europe and making a trip to North Africa. The world is your classroom. We finally made our way to the Tower Bridge where we visited the exhibit (again taking advantage of the 2 for 1 entries which greatly reduced the cost of their trip). We then visited the Imperial War Museum, my favourite museum in London (perhaps the world) thus far. It is one of those museums, so intelligently laid out with something for the ears, eyes and nose (yes, they had interactive trenches, along with some unappealling smells). We finished the evening by eating some Indian food with Sha and Tex, two of my flatmates from Kerala in India. They knew their food and made great guests.

I saw my family off this morning before coming back, sick and exhausted, and holding a copy of today's Sunday Daily Times (thick as a phone book). I dropped the newspaper to the ground, rolled into bed and slept a wonderful three hours. I woke up in silence. And space. It was nice but it felt like something was missing. Although living in a small room with four people was trying and exhausting, it was also nice to wake up to Gabi's non-stop gabbering and questioning the silliest things. He is one of the only children I know who can entertain himself for hours upon hours by simply talking to himself or others (whether they listen or not). Amazing! Yes, it was both sad and welcoming to see my family depart but we will share some wonderful memories from their trip. I truly love them.

Saturday, March 04, 2006

Gabi comes to town


Well, it's official... My family is in town! I went to pick them up yesterday morning. Their flight was scheduled to arrive at 8:30 AM but they only landed at 9:30 AM because of a severe winter storm in St.John's which delayed the trip by about 1:15 hours. But they made it out by 10:00 AM. We raced to get back to my place because my sister had a flight to Vienna and wanted to see us before she left (she needed to leave by 11:30 to catch her flight). When we arrived, we had a cake and a gift for Gabi because it was his birthday today. He just turned 11. My sister then left and we set out to visit the city. My mom was very cute and was like a kid discovering the city. She noticed all the differences like my cousin did. We visited most of the important sites around the city. We finished the day by taking a double decker back home (which my cousin loved) and we then had a relaxing meal. My flatmates were real gentlemen, giving us the living room while we ate and entertaining my little cousin while they watched TV. Dave even promised Gabi to play on his playstation two tomorrow.

Today, my mom, my aunt and cousin will be going to see the Misérables (the musical). I will be taking advantage of the free time to complete my readings (hopefully) and work on a project section which is due for tomorrow (yikes).

For full pictures of our first day, click on here.